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Shalom Aleichem

by Barbara Krasner (Somerset, NJ)

I say hello to you as I drive on the Garden State Parkway

that bisects the cemetery in Newark. I have not been to see you

in years. Visiting Day at the Grove Street Cemetery is only one day

a year, the Sunday between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.

You know the local police are there to protect you, but it’s too late.

The cemetery’s already been vandalized many times over.

I like to think only your decaying bodies lie in those caskets. 

Your spirit is still flying around, maybe inhabiting someone else.

That while I’m driving, you’re making a brisket or cutting up

onions and carrots for stew or soup. That while I’m driving

you’re thinking about your daughters and grandchildren

Over There, the ones you’ll never get to see again. That 

you still refuse to learn English and sometimes

you forget your teeth. I await your Aleichem Shalom.

Barbara Krasner is a New Jersey-based poet whose work has appeared in more than seventy journals, including the Jewish Writing Project, Minyan Magazine, Jewish Literary Journal, Vita Poetica, and Of the Book. Recent books include Insomnia: Poems after Lee Krasner (dancing girl press), The Wanderers: Poems (Shanti Arts), and the forthcoming Memory Collector (Kelsay Books).

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Visiting on Father’s Day

by Lillian Farzan-Kashani (Santa Monica, CA)

Your energy shines

Like the sun rays

Grateful to be near you, 

I clean off your headstone with rosewater

What a gift to be raised

In the language you spoke

Hayedeh and Faramarz on repeat

In your honor

I wish we could have gotten 

Further into the

Rumi + Hafez of it all

Perhaps not a poet

But a philosopher

I wonder what you would say now

My fiancé’s flight canceled

Bombs going off in your homeland

And too close to where your parents rest

Would you tense like the rest of our family 

At the sight of a kefiyyeh?

Or see it just as

The stars I was given as a child, to wear around my neck

A symbol of

The people, at the end of the day

With whom you found grace, even kinship 

Moved by their beauty and hospitality

Oh how I long for more time spent with you, Baba, your leveled head and all

Lillian Farzan-Kashani is an Iranian American and Jewish therapist, poet, and speaker based in Los Angels, CA. Much her her work is rooted in being a child of immigrants and is reflective of her intersectionality. Read more about her professional and creative pursuits at https:www.lillianfarzan.com/

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